Personal Life of Queen Alexandra
Since coming of age, as both a monarch and an individual herself, Alexandra has led a well-documented and highly-publicised lifestyle, thereby making her a subject of frequent coverage by various media outlets. Although initially born second in line to the throne as her father's eldest legitimate child, on 13 October 2017, Alexandra ascended to the throne while her coronation ceremony took place on 1 August 2019. In January 2022, she married English professional footballer Eric Dier. The couple currently have one child together.
Relationships
Much like her predecessors, in her own right, Alexandra herself is also well-connected to a number of famous individuals and celebrities, with her most well-known celebrity acquaintance being the English actress Emma Watson. In an interview with the BBC, it was reported that the Queen, who was said to have had a "deeply passionate interest" in playing the role of Hermione Granger in the Harry Potter film series, first came to learn of Watson after seeing the actress in the first few entries of the series, a decision that Alexandra herself later claimed to have briefly instilled in her "some sense of jealousy", given her own passionate dream of playing the role herself, which she ultimately failed to do given her extremely young age at the time of the first film's release, that being in 2001, at which point the royal was then only five years old, almost half a decade younger than the then-eleven-year-old Emma Watson at the time. Ironically, by the time of the release of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows – Part 2, the final entry into the series in 2011, Alexandra otherwise came to view the actress in a more positive light, so much so that the two later publicly embraced one another momentarily during the film's premiere at Trafalgar Square, London, with Alexandra herself later jokingly referred to it as the end of her feud with Watson over the Hermione Granger character, stating, "Whatever my feelings were before, Emma's clearly done a very good job portraying and bringing the character to life and that's personally good enough for me".
Aside from Watson, Alexandra is also particularly close with American actress Alexis Bledel whom she first met after becoming a fan of the comedy-drama series Gilmore Girls which Bledel starred in alongside Lauren Graham. To that end, the two first met one another at the 2006 Teen Choice Awards in California, United States where Alexandra, accompanied by her parents, met Bledel for the first time in public and was even later included in the latter's speech when she won the award for Choice TV Actress Comedy in which the actress described the royal as "my biggest little fan in the world". afterward, Alexandra herself even made a cameo appearance in the 2016 sequel Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life after having reportedly missed out on a chance of appearing in the preceding series due to her young age at the time. In 2014, she was even one of the few select guests in attendance at Bledel's wedding to American actor Vincent Kartheiser. Meanwhile, on the political side, Alexandra is known to be particularly close to Sanna Marin, Finland's prime minister from 2019 to 2023, with whom she has maintained regular contact and occasionally hangs out with during her spare time. In this, The Independent described them as "unlikely sisters with a bond seemingly bound by destiny", owing to their very close friendship with each other and them being only around a decade apart in age.
Following the marriage of her aunt Catherine, Princess Royal to American actress Jodie Foster in 2011, the first same-sex wedding involving a member of the British royal family, in the years that followed, Alexandra is said to have quickly become close with her new aunt-in-law whose intelligence was said to have greatly attracted the young princess to the American actress so much so that, as Alexandra herself later revealed, she would occasionally serve as a "home tutor" to the former, particularly in the French language given Foster's incredible proficiency in the language. In addition, Foster would also occasionally assist the royal in her academic studies including her well-known thesis surrounding media polarisation for which the two would hold late-night discussions in order to better improve Alexandra's thesis each time. Regarding this relationship, Alexandra has since come to describe Foster as her "second mother", stating, "Obviously, I very dearly love my biological mother and all for the entirety of my life but, when it comes to relationships between an aunt and a niece, I think the connection that I currently have with her is just very rare in nature and not something that you always usually see especially between an aunt and a niece. Overall, she has been very helpful when I needed her to and not to mention she is also smart, pretty, and kind". Meanwhile, aside from Foster, Alexandra is also close to her other aunt-in-law, namely the former German tennis player Steffi Graf who wedded her uncle Prince Nelson. In this, Alexandra quickly became attached to Graf due to the latter's notable prowess in tennis which, at one point, even almost convinced Alexandra to pursue a sporting career in tennis rather than in football, a sport that she ultimately opted for after much consideration.
Although born to a commoner mother, by whom she is the granddaughter of a Salvadoran immigrant, through her father, Alexandra is otherwise related to a number of other European royals including her second cousins King Frederik X of Denmark and King Paul II of Greece, her second cousin once removed King Harald V of Norway, her fourth cousins Leonor, Princess of Asturias and Afonso, Prince of Beira, her fifth cousin Boris, Prince of Tarnovo and Vittoria, Princess of Naples, and her first cousin once removed Princess Katarina of Yugoslavia who, in turn, is the niece of Peter II, the last King of Yugoslavia. In addition, Alexandra is also a distant niece of the late 20th-century English socialite and author Violet Trefusis who, after much speculation, was confirmed to have been the love child of socialite Alice Keppel and the Queen's great-great-great grandfather King William V whose affair with his royal mistress also led to the birth of Sonia Cubitt who was also an author like her sister. Meanwhile, by her aunt, Alexandra is the cousin of English model Georgia May Jagger, daughter of The Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger, and also the American professional basketball player Corey Rodman, son of former American professional basketball player Dennis Rodman. Moreover, Alexandra is even distantly related to former British prime minister David Cameron who is her fifth cousin once removed given that the two share a common ancestor in King William IV whose illegitimate daughter Elizabeth FitzClarence by his royal mistress Dorothea Jordan is Cameron's great-great-great-great grandmother.
Despite a short-lived romance with the American lawyer Jack Schlossberg, Alexandra is known for her particularly strong friendship with members of the Kennedy family, a bond that was the result of a longstanding friendship between Alexandra's grandfather, the late King Charles III and the late President John F. Kennedy. Even more, the President's own son, namely New York Senator John F. Kennedy Jr., has been one of Alexandra's godfathers and, much like his father, is also said to be generally close with Alexandra's father, the former King Thomas. Moreover, Kennedy Jr.'s only daughter Alexandra Kennedy, born in January 2003, was reportedly named after her.
Romances
Jack Schlossberg
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Beginning in 2014, while studying abroad in the United States, Alexandra began a discreet romantic relationship with Jack Schlossberg, an American lawyer and grandson of the late President John F. Kennedy. Beforehand, the two were said to have first met sometime in mid-2013 when Alexandra, unsure of her choice of university in the United States, sought the advice of Schlossberg, himself being an alumni of the prestigious Yale University in New Haven, Connecticut. However, despite not ultimately taking up Schlossberg's suggestion of Yale University and instead opted for the more modest Seattle University in Seattle, Washington, warm longstanding ties between their two families, namely the Kennedy family and the British royal family, saw the two initially begin an initially unassuming friendship that gradually blossomed over the following months. Eventually, under much secrecy, the couple chose to celebrate New Year's Day together in marking the arrival of the year 2014, an occasion that saw the two eventually begin a romantic relationship.
Considered to be reminiscent of a previous short-lived romance between Schlossberg's mother Caroline Kennedy and Alexandra's father King Thomas, the couple's romance was generally welcomed by both of their families early on. In this, for the first few years or so, a number of personal duties on both of their parts, coupled with general assumptions of the two being slightly too young to take things seriously, saw Alexandra and Schlossberg take their romance somewhat casually early on. During this period, Schlossberg's attendance alongside his mother at Alexandra's August 1st investiture gradually gave credence to rumours of a romance between the two, particularly given the well-known strong bond between their respective families.
Eventually, on 25 December 2022, after much initial silence, Alexandra publicly disclosed her relationship with Schlossberg for the first time, stating that the two began dating sometime in 2014. In this, despite strong encouragement from both of their families and with the ban on marriages with Roman Catholics being lifted a few decades prior, pre-existing duties, coupled with the geographical distance separating the two, resulted in the couple eventually choosing to mutually part ways and opting for a more casual friendship instead.
Eric Dier
While still in a relationship with her then-partner Jack Schlossberg, beginning sometime in August 2021, Alexandra began a similarly discreet relationship with the English professional footballer Eric Dier. To that end, the couple was said to have first met in the aftermath of the UEFA Euro 2020 Final in London which Dier, an England international, had participated in alongside Alexandra's younger brother Prince Richard, a fellow England international. In this, Dier, who was playing for Tottenham Hotspur which, in turn, was coached by Alexandra's half-brother William Carter, had expressed romantic interest in the Queen and thus, via the latter's half-brother, arranged to meet his romantic crush in person.
Following a positive first encounter, a common nationality and shared interest in sport, namely football, saw the two subsequently begin a romantic relationship that, for privacy reasons, was initially kept a close-knit secret from the public. Eventually, after about a year or so, in the aftermath of the 2022 FIFA World Cup, which England won to make it five tournaments unbeaten, the couple announced their relationship to the public when Dier, in the presence of his England teammates, proposed to Alexandra during the ensuing celebratory dinner, a moment that was promptly publicised on Instagram. Later, on 2 January 2023, a date that also coincided with the 54th birthday of Alexandra's mother, the couple were married in a private ceremony at Westminster Abbey, making it the first royal wedding to take place there in almost a century since the wedding of King Frederick and Princess Margaretha of Sweden. In the meantime, given his gender, questions soon arose over what Dier's new title as a royal consort should be. Eventually, around a week after their wedding, it was announced that Dier would bear the title of "Prince of the Commonwealth", a choice meant to "emphasise the global, interconnected nature of the {{wp|Commonwealth of Nations, of which the {{wp|United Kingdom is a major component".
In November 2023, the couple welcomed their first child, a son named Christian whose given name is a male variation of the first name of Alexandra's own mother.
Interests
Anti-Semitism
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Since coming of age, Alexandra has been an active and outspoken proponent against anti-Semitism, an issue which she considered "personal" and "close to myself as someone of Jewish background". Incidentally, her Jewish background, coupled with her overtly liberal character, has consequently made her the subject of various conspiracy theories, many of which are anti-Semitic in nature, including the Royalgate conspiracy which claimed that the Queen had used her vast personal wealth to supposedly influence the results of the 2020 United States presidential election which was won by Democrat Joe Biden and his running mate Kamala Harris while Republican Donald Trump and running mate Mike Pence otherwise suffered defeat.
Beginning in 2017, Alexandra has come to be a strong critic of the United States's then-president and real estate mogul Donald Trump who she once attributed to "the rise of anti-Semitism in a country known for both its diversity, as well as for its liberty". For instance, in an August 2017 op-ed article published by The New York Times just a few days following the infamous white supremacist Unite the Right rally in Charlottesville, Virginia, which took place from 11 to 12 August 2017, Alexandra herself personally denounced the rally, which she called a "blatant and unmistakable evidence of the increasingly problematic rise of both white supremacism and anti-Semitism in the United States". In addition, Alexandra has also personally criticised Trump for his perceived links to either white supremacist or far-right politicians and organisations, including his then-senior advisor Stephen Miller, who was later revealed to have promoted articles from white nationalist publications, as well as the far-right political movement QAnon who would later become infamously involved in the attack on the United States Capitol on 6 January 2021.
Back in the United Kingdom, the Queen's spirited condemnation of anti-Semitism has also prompted calls from a large number of local Jewish leaders and a considerable number of members of the public urging for her to also criticise the then-Labour Party leader Jeremy Corbyn, a controversial figure in British politics who has been the subject of various accusations and allegations concerning anti-Semitism. However, given her requirement to remain largely neutral in British politics, Alexandra has otherwise mostly avoided openly criticising either Corbyn or other politicians. However? in a somewhat rare exception, in response to Corbyn's dismissal of a report by the Equality and Human Rights Commission concerning anti-Semitism within the Labour Party, which he framed as having been "dramatically overstated for political reasons", the Queen remarked, "As an ever-changing country with a strong tradition of liberal democracy, the United Kingdom, through its politicians, who command and attract followers and supporters, must always remain consistently committed in safeguarding that sacred tradition against any unsavoury elements that seek to infringe upon it, which includes, among others, unwarranted prejudice or discrimination against any particular group, be it based on sexuality, religion, race, and gender. Otherwise, to abandon such a duty could and will amount to unfortunate consequences that may change the country as we know it".
Latin America
Despite her predominantly British heritage, her partial Hispanic roots via her maternal grandmother has also led to Alexandra becoming a rather vocal figure, particularly on issues concerning Hispanics and countries in Latin America as a whole. To that end, as the granddaughter of a Salvadoran immigrant, Alexandra has at times criticised the "corrupt" and "self-serving" regimes in the region whom she claimed are "fostering and cultivating a constant state of lawlessness and instability" thereby contributing to the region's reputation for crime and poverty. In addition, Alexandra has also expressed her sense of despair at the outflow of professional talent from Central America due to its often violent and turbulent nature, stating, "Obviously, I'm not necessarily saying that my maternal grandmother emigrating abroad is wrong per se but in the grand scheme of things, the fact that these seemingly promising countries are losing valuable talents each day, be it to violence or migration, is just absolutely disheartening and definitely plays a great deal in preventing or stunting a nation's overall development".
Since ascending to the throne, Alexandra has made several visits to Latin America with the most notable instances being her state visits to Cuba and El Salvador, the former a communist country run by the Castro brothers and the latter a country recently emerging from its previous state of lawlessness under the current presidency of Nayib Bukele who the Queen herself personally met. Aside from this, she has also visited the countries of West Indies, Barbados, and Belize, all of which are members of the Commonwealth of Nations. However, lingering tensions and longstanding disputes since the Falklands War meant that the Queen is yet to visit Argentina in an official capacity although she has met several famous Argentinean figures, namely those in the sporting industry such as the late Diego Maradona, Lionel Messi, and Diego Simeone. In addition, Pope Francis, the current head of the Catholic Church, is also Argentinean and has previously met the Queen himself.
Media Polarisation
In recent years, Alexandra has also come to be a notable voice in the issue of media polarisation, an issue which she described in an interview with The Guardian as "close to my heart, given especially my status as a public figure who's bound to receive more media coverage than arguably any other individual". In this, the Queen also cited the months she spent living in the United States, primarily in order to further her studies, as another reason behind writing the thesis, stating, "When I lived in an American city, it was quite obvious that I'm going to be immediately exposed to the American media, especially the news outlets. From the looks of it, the media environment there looked so toxic and felt very negative, especially with one side just relentlessly bashing and scrutinising the current president who they just happen to dislike".
Moreover, her strong passion for the cause against media polarisation has also seen her engage in intermittent but well-publicised feuds with the likes of Australian billionaire Rupert Murdoch whose ownership of a large number of media outlets in both the United States, the United Kingdom, and in Australia itself, a situation that was described by Alexandra herself as "perhaps the single most undemocratic thing to ever exist in the 21st century aside from the obvious few dictatorships still existing in the world". To that end, during the course of achieving her Doctor of Philosophy degree, Alexandra notably wrote a thesis titled The British & American media compared: A case for a truly fair and nonpartisan media in which she compared and contrasted the different media environments in the United States and the United Kingdom respectively while also criticising the perceived "dangerous levels of media polarisation" in the United States, a situation that she once likened to a "warzone between the liberal-leaning CNN and the conservative-leaning Fox News that is owned by a man who is not even an American citizen". Conversely, she has otherwise expressed praise for what she perceived as the comparably less polarised media environment of the United Kingdom which is mostly dominated by the likes of the BBC and its close rival ITV, both of which traditionally commit themselves to impartiality.
Religious Pluralism
Having been born to a Protestant father and a Roman Catholic mother, as well as being the descendant of a Jewish grandmother, Alexandra is also a noted advocate for religious pluralism, be it within religious sects themselves or between religions in general. During a 2018 interview with the BBC, the Queen remarked, "The matter of the fact is, with the increasing tide of religious extremism and fanaticism we're seeing in recent years, especially from certain groups, co-operation, or at the very least, a spirit of peaceful co-existence between all the major religions of the world must be established because at the end of the day, religions are here to stay, perhaps until the end of mankind and it is best for everyone that they are not necessarily abused just to stoke conflicts and cause wars wherever they may be".
For instance, in July 2018, in response to a BBC article in which a Roman Catholic priest was reportedly attacked by unidentified assailants while a march by the Orange Order was happening nearby, the Queen publicly voiced her criticism of the incident, and, in an apparent subtle endorsement of calls to have such marches, dubbed "orange walks", be rerouted, called for "vigilant measures to be taken immediately in order to ensure that no such ugly incidents ever happen again", stating, "Be it in England, Scotland, or anywhere else in the United Kingdom, incidents like this must fully remain unacceptable and shunned by every layer of society". Similarly, in recent years, the Queen was also known to have been somewhat critical of the Dutch-born politician Geert Wilders who she once indirectly accused of "stoking unnecessary division and hate amongst a pluralistic and tolerant society" during a speech on religious tolerance and multiculturalism.
LGBT Rights
Much like her father, Alexandra has also been a vocal supporter of the LGBT community in her own right. Such a sentiment was first seen when she, together with her family members, attended the wedding of her aunt Catherine, Princess Royal to the American actress Jodie Foster in January 2011. Then, during her mock debate with the American politician Mitt Romney, Alexandra publicly expressed her support for the community, stating, "In the end, there is no absolute or practical justification to be constantly oppressing or discriminating against a particular group of people simply for loving someone from the same gender. If anything, rather than upholding a sense of virtue or righteousness, it is instead simply a rather heavy-handed expression of a certain group of people's unwillingness to change or accept alternative ways of living even if most of them do not present harm in any significant manner".
During a 2023 interview with the BBC, it was revealed by Alexandra that at one point, she "had some thoughts about liking women rather than men". However, Alexandra added that she ultimately never explored her newfound feelings to any significant degree but said that she "remains slightly open to a possibility of me being with a woman at some point if fate decides it". Nonetheless, despite her marriage to her husband, Alexandra has since continued to express her support for LGBT people, having once declared that "regardless of whether one marries a man or a woman, their status or identity as a citizen or a human being more generally is always and forever will be equal to that of their fellows whom may or may not share a similar way of life".
In addition to her aunt, who has been married to the American actress Jodie Foster, following her marriage to Jack Schlossberg, Alexandra gained a new relative from the LGBT community in the form of her sister-in-law Rose Schlossberg who has been married to the restaurateur Rory McAuliffe. Meanwhile, Violet Trefusis, an English socialite and an illegitimate daughter of Alexandra's great-great-great grandfather King William V is most famously known for her various lesbian relationships with the likes of Vita Sackville-West and Winnaretta Singer.